Malign!

There are many times that we get maligned for something we have not done due to various reasons. Because people are bias against you, people do not know what you are trying to say or people just don't bother to give you the respect that you deserve.

Many people come and go, and what I can't stand most is the damage that they cause in your life. It has happened to me on various occasions and the most hurting ones are when the people who malign you are either you best friends or family. Its like, why do that when you are family or friends to the victim. Then on the other hand, how do you define friends? Those who only find you when they are in trouble? Those who are only there when you are in trouble? Or those who have been with you regardless of whether anyone of you are in trouble or not, spending happy and sad moments together?

Everyone is so busy nowadays that it is so difficult to make a point to meet up. When people promise to keep in touch and all, it is just false talk most of the time. Like, we are all so busy with school life, new friends that we meet, work and all, till we forget the promises made and forget to spend time with your friends.

Many things has just happened recently and I don’t feel comfortable in blogging them out. Haiz, just can’t wait to go Shanghai and be gone for a while. Maybe my absence would make everyone’s life easier, better. Maybe its time for me to really really move on and stop hoping that things would be the same as secondary school days. The relationships that we have has really changed and shattered, and its time I just face the music rather than hide and pray for the better.

Hate it to be like that. It is so not me… But, sometimes the strongest person can be really vulnerable and all they need is just for family and friends to be around them to give them the joy in life.

Okie, got to go back to doing project work now... School is cool, but work is not!